Why not spend some time getting to know someone else? The two positions, as far as I can tell, are irreconcilable.
And again, all this seems like a solid game plan……..provided you’re married by age 25.
It’s just – what about the rest of us for whom that cutoff point passes, and we’re still single?
Of course I’m exaggerating, but I really have found that the expectations and judgements that are made on Christian first dates are quite extreme.
I really don’t think you can accurately assess anyone’s leadership or provider or parenting potential the first time you go out with them.
You know this guy is out there, because God is writing your love story and you are using this season of singleness to fall in love with Jesus even more in anticipation of the spiritually appointed meeting of this young man, who is also using this season of singleness to grow into the strong, faithful leader that God intends him to be.
Sure, you’re frustrated because the guys in your youth group seem immature and only interested in the popular girls (which you are not one of), but you can hold out, because you can’t imagine your life beyond age 25 and by then you’ll surely be married.Sorry if this is a downer, guys – just feeling frustrated at the moment.The most famous selection of premium porn sites, free porn tubes, sex live cams and more, all bookmarked on My Porn Bible.On the one hand, you have the hard-liners who feel that The Bible Says, and if you never go on that first date with a non-Christian, you will never have to deal with all the problems that come from Unequal Yokeage, which is the whole point of The Bible Says in the first place. Those people who have to spend time with their children?They can’t serve at church potlucks and crisis pregnancy centers the way you can.I don’t know how I’ll get to marriage someday (something I highly value, study and prepare for, desire, respect, etc.) if I can’t even get to a first date.