Stand up straight and keep your movements controlled and purposeful (avoid fidgeting).When you make eye contact, show confidence by holding her gaze (let her look away first). It’s pretty common for men to date younger women – which is exactly why dating older women is so enjoyable.
The fact is the same playful, child-like banter that works with younger women is going to work with older women too.
So if you’re chatting up an older woman, you may want to use a playful banter line like “this is never going to work out… A line like that is great because not only does it get her laughing, but by joking about the age difference you show you’re not concerned about it.
This combination of confident body language and eye contact will get her to see that you’re the kind of powerful, self-assured man older women like.
Unlike a lot of younger women who are still exploring the dating world, older women have a much stronger idea of what they want.
And if you’re not concerned about it, it’s easier for her to not worry about it either.
Older women are likely going to have different interests than their younger counterparts.
When you touch her you build sexual tension, and when you pull your touch away that tension releases.
If you continually build and release tension by making physical contact and then releasing that touch, it’ll strengthen the sexual intensity between you.
For example, if you’re on a date and feel pressure to think of something interesting to say, then say something like “I feel like I need to come up with something clever to say…” Opening yourself up like this gives her a chance to feel closer to you and connect on a deeper level.
It also helps her feel safe opening up, which is going to make the connection even stronger.
For example, if there’s a lot of sexual tension and you want to bring her back to your place to get physical, you don’t need some cover like “let’s go back to my place and watch a movie”.