I would rather be alone than settle for anything less. When you know what you want, you don’t confuse lust, attraction, boredom, the need for attention and excitement (all powerful feelings) with love and compatibility.
I don’t want to argue with those who think I should be more flexible. I have good friends who are serial daters and are never single for a second, and yet they are no closer to finding the relationship they truly seek. I don’t have the patience to waste my time in something my gut knows will not work. That being said, it doesn’t mean I haven’t allowed myself to spend time in situations driven by those other emotions.
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Within minutes of rejoining, I’m always like “oh yeah, this is why I hate this shit.”Here’s the thing, I know exactly what I want when it comes to building a life with someone.
I haven’t always been able to articulate it, but I’ve always known.
Early on, I made the decision that if I was going to end up alone that I would want to be at peace with that. Yes, I’m talking about the whole finding happiness within bullshit — except I don’t think it’s bullshit.
Just trust that my personal experiences have lead me to this conclusion, and not some sappy line in a self-help book.
I’m honestly not one who is interested in talking myself into making things work with those who don’t share my overall values, morals and ethics.
Opposites may attract when it comes to whether or not you’re a cat or dog person, but if you don’t want children and your potential mate does…
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I’m not in search for “great people” — lots of people are great — I’m in search of compatibility.
For example, if a guy thinks contraception is a sin, I’d rather not pursue a relationship with someone that might constantly sway me to be “adventurous” while we’re in lust, and then get stuck with his ass for the rest of my life due to an accidental pregnancy that I didn’t catch on time.
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