What you are experiencing now, is a lot like being lost in a brain fog that you have come to feel as your normal.As you emerge out of this bio-chemical depressive fog, everything hurts, you are not sure you will ever recover and you are questioning the core of who you really are so you slip back into the fog.
If they are too far below us, we are likely to be uninterested in them for the same reasons.
Individuals with Borderline and Narcissistic Disorders share some of the same intimacy issues Whole Object Relations: “Whole object relations” is the capacity to simultaneously see both the good and bad qualities of a person and accept that both exist.
Your energy for anything else, let alone your own fulfillment and self care, becomes dulled and displaced.
You may feel disoriented and hopeless much of the time.
Her workshop students dubbed her The Pistol Whip Hippie because her teaching/coaching style is irreverent, in your face and radically honest (the Pistol Whip part) with the follow up being supportive, nurturing awakened energy (the Hippie part) that inspires men to strive to be their very best.
This is similar to what went on when we were in elementary school. Everyone in the “Chickadees,” for example, could read at about the same level.
His every move marks his own growing instability, the cycle gains momentum.
Daily pressure becomes more and more intense until one or the other can’t take it anymore.
I describe healthy female emotional processing in my coursework for men, in fact, it is the heart of my work to teach men how to guide and manage women’s amazing capacity to refine life through her unique intuitive skills.
Consider that nagging sense, that is getting louder, your best friend right now.
The very thought of enduring it much longer, let alone moving on and somehow finding the love and connection, your soul so desperately craves, seems overwhelming.