For years I've been hearing from women, both strangers, friends, and women I'm involved with, that I'm intimidating.
For example, I chatted up a girl on the train yesterday who told me I was intimidating.
A really good way to work on comming across as less intimidating is adding some more smiles (just without over-doing it ) when you approach and also work on humor, get her laughing early just after you've approached and that will go a long way to getting her more relaxed with you and you won't be comming off as intimidating then.
I got her number/planned a date so it didn't seem like a bad thing.
I'm tall, well-built, and often get told that I'm good looking.
I used to be a really angry person and couldn't really control that anger. But apparently I'm still intimidating I'm not sure how not to beit's sort of my personality.
I think it's more important that I'm not threatening people and getting in very heated disagreements. He helps me, and yes he gets angry, but I have encouraged him to teach me. I thought I was acting like I did need them to some extentfor example I mention needing someone to help carry stuff because I can't carry things like I used to be able to because of my joints.
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Bdend-1g /* Trending Now */ /* Center Rail */ #ya-center-rail .profile-banner-default .ya-ba-title #Stencil . Bgc-lgr #ya-best-answer, #ya-qpage-msg, #ya-question-detail, li.ya-other-answer .tupwrap .comment-text /* Right Rail */ #Stencil . Bxsh-003-prpl #yai-q-answer, #ya-trending, #ya-related-questions h2. Fw-300 .qstn-title #ya-trending-questions-show-more, #ya-related-questions-show-more #ya-trending-questions-more, #ya-related-questions-more /* DMROS */ .A lot of guys seem to have the friendly approachable part down but need to lock in their self-confidence/dominance more. I have a great presence and I'm almost never ignored or dismissed by women.However, a lot of women will seem hesitant around me and won't be nearly as outgoing with me as they seem with other guys.The only exception is at parties/bars where these now drunk girls will be all over me.Taking home the hammered girl I have to see in class the next day isn't something I really want to do.When I'm in the right mood or have some alcohol in me I can be extremely social/outgoing and notice incredible results.