A lot of guys seem to have the friendly approachable part down but need to lock in their self-confidence/dominance more. I have a great presence and I'm almost never ignored or dismissed by women.However, a lot of women will seem hesitant around me and won't be nearly as outgoing with me as they seem with other guys.I spent four years in military recently so I carry myself well and with confidence.
How to be less intimidating
I'm not the bubbly guy that walks around with a smile on his face at all times, but I'm not a grouch either.
I'm in college now and due to my veteran status I'm a few years older than most of the girls in my classes/life.
I also tend to come off as a player when I act this outgoing.
I want to be in the middle ground where I can continue to use my inner confidence/dominance while being more approachable to women. Thanks If you're not a bubbly person you don't have to walk around with a big goofy grin on your face and a list of punchlines in your pocket.
I asked her what she meant but she refused to answer, telling me only that I should take it as a compliment.
We'd just spent an hour talking about our lives in pretty intimate details so this perplexed me. Fw-300 #ya-qn-sort h2 /* Breadcrumb */ #ya-question-breadcrumb #ya-question-breadcrumb i #ya-question-breadcrumb a #bc .ya-q-full-text, .ya-q-text #ya-question-detail h1 html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] .ya-q-full-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] .ya-q-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] .ya-q-full-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] .ya-q-text html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] #ya-question-detail h1, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] #ya-question-detail h1 #Stencil . Bdend-1g /* Trending Now */ /* Center Rail */ #ya-center-rail .profile-banner-default .ya-ba-title #Stencil . Bgc-lgr #ya-best-answer, #ya-qpage-msg, #ya-question-detail, li.ya-other-answer .tupwrap .comment-text /* Right Rail */ #Stencil . Bxsh-003-prpl #yai-q-answer, #ya-trending, #ya-related-questions h2. Fw-300 .qstn-title #ya-trending-questions-show-more, #ya-related-questions-show-more #ya-trending-questions-more, #ya-related-questions-more /* DMROS */ .When I'm in the right mood or have some alcohol in me I can be extremely social/outgoing and notice incredible results.However, most of the time this just isn't my personality, and trying to pretend it is won't work.A really good way to work on comming across as less intimidating is adding some more smiles (just without over-doing it ) when you approach and also work on humor, get her laughing early just after you've approached and that will go a long way to getting her more relaxed with you and you won't be comming off as intimidating then.