We’ve had our problems but have worked through it all and I really want him to pop the question already.
There was a moment when he talked about us being married, but he joked that I should be the one to get him the ring.
Most guys have heard enough horror stories to know that tying the knot isn’t going to make a woman any less likely to cheat or leave, so there’s a general attitude that it’s not to our advantage to risk half of our income on the chance that everything works out.
(Quick insert here: I’ve gotten LOTS of comments that there are many marriages where the woman makes more money than the man and she ends up getting financially screwed.
It’s really romantic and optimistic to imagine that even in online dating hell, soulmates still exist.
It’s also about trusting yourself to know when someone is or isn’t right for you. If we weren’t capable of believing that, online dating wouldn’t be a thing.
If you believe that your marriage will be everlasting, there’s nothing to worry about.
In fact, that’s the point of the prenup: It gives both of you the ability to relax and never have to worry about anything ending horribly if things don’t work out.most guys perceived that risk to be on the guy’s side only).If the guy is having those kinds of fears, you might want to consider a prenuptial agreement.Also, I think it would be in your best interest to relax and wait for him to propose marriage to you. Aside from him probably feeling insulted by the gesture, can you imagine if he did go for it?Every time you have an argument he’d think back to how he felt coerced into marriage and pressured by you. If you get impatient, it’s going to block your ability to be empathetic and understanding towards him.I’ve met plenty of women who are in a hurry to get married.